Negative people always have a problem for every solution
Have you thought about the attitude you take when faced with a problem? Sometimes we don’t react as we should when we are under pressure or in some difficult situation and instead of finding solutions to these problems we end up exaggerating. And although this reaction is certainly negative, it is normal that we sometimes collapse. But did you know that negative people even when they find the solution to a problem find a but?
A negative person will always see the bad in everything, even in the good things. You may be going through a bad situation and find a solution and this person would find a problem in it. Here’s a simple example.
Think of a negative person who is very cold and who finds that a coat must be worn as a solution, but slows down because he says that he will feel very hot later. You then look for a less thick coat, and this person tells you that he does not like it because of its color. You look for a coat of a color he likes and he still tells you it’s too long or too short or too “something. In short, he decides to keep complaining.
If you think about it, these overly negative people who find problems even in the good things, never get to be happy no matter how hard they try because everything somehow dissatisfies them. They fail to find pleasure in anything they do and anything they receive, so they are not grateful. For them, the world is bad, people are bad, things don’t work out and they themselves are mistreated with statements like “they weren’t born for this”, or the famous “I can’t”.
These mentalities are too much of a reproach because they do not edify us in any way. Just think, and the world is complex, changing suddenly and has millions of selfish people who only know how to do harm to others. We know that the world as a whole is corrupt, that there is no equality, that we are prisoners of a global system that operates according to the needs and desires of a handful of people who control all the money in the world. There are illnesses, problems with couples and families, and so instead of enjoying all the good things that also exist and are in fact greater than the bad things, you prefer to complain and accentuate the bad things?
If life gives you so many problems just look at them for what they are, opportunities to learn and grow. Take advantage and try to change your reality by finding solutions that reduce the amount of problems. And do not look for defects in these solutions or anything good that happens to you because perfection does not exist and every thing could always be better, so obviously if you look for the defect to good things we assure you that you will find it.