Never lie to a wise woman
Lies hurt, that’s something we’ve known since we were kids, yet we keep telling them, why? It’s possible that it’s a defense system so ingrained in our lives that it’s already part of our genetic code. It’s hard to stop lying, but at least you have to be careful who you lie to, because if you run into a wise woman, things won’t end very well for you.
Most people demand the truth every day, but many times these same people lie or do not know how to deal with the truth. This only motivates one thing and that is to keep lying.
But what motivates us to lie? The reality is that we do it since we are very young, in a way you could say that lying is very implicit in our genetic code, if you don’t believe us just think about the babies, that many times cry disconsolately just to receive attention. The parents might think that something is wrong with them, maybe it is hunger, or sleep, maybe they are in pain or feel sick, but when you put them in your arms it turns out that all that drama was to get to be in your arms. You may not consider this a lie, but an exaggeration of the need to be with your mother, but isn’t exaggeration a way of lying?
Most children, however, learn to lie almost instinctively, to get out of a conflict or scolding that will result in punishment. And when we reach adulthood we do not improve this attitude much, on the contrary, we intensify it more, because we lie for a large number of situations ranging from silly things like what you could or could not eat during the day to big situations that can trigger very serious problems.
Then there are those who demand the truth because they feel they are very transparent people but cannot deal with it. The truth hurts them, and create resentment, hatred and do not forget. Then, only encourage people to continue lying to them because they do not have the maturity to face a lie. And of course, in all this list we find all the human beings who lie but who love to be honest with us, it is a matter of double standards.
Having said all this, the best solution would be to stop lying and grieve for those who are in pain by being so transparent that they keep us in a very positive balance in our lives. But since we know you won’t, it would be wise to take care of those who lie to you.
For example there is the case of wise women, remember that today women know completely how the male mind works, this is an experience that has been growing from generation to generation. You cannot pretend that the basic bullshit that was customary for men will work for most women.
Today, women have evolved a lot and have become very wise, so if you don’t want to disappoint any of them, maybe it would be better if you think twice about lying to anyone.
A wise woman will know how to read you and discover you instantly, but she will act as if she knows nothing to see how far you are capable of going and will know how to turn your lie around so that the blow is yours.