Fall in love with someone who loves your company
The phrase that says, “Don’t treat those who only treat you as an option as a priority,” is very accurate. Sometimes we fall into superficial relationships because of the need to feel someone’s company regardless of whether it’s convenient for us or not.
There are all kinds of relationships and the superficial ones are the most abundant these days. This type of relationship makes us victims of the childish hope that everything can change in the blink of an eye, but it is necessary to see the facts as they are. Many of us believe that: “We don’t choose who we are going to love”, but is it really true? Can’t we choose a person who values our way of being?
On reflection we can say that love was not made to destroy hearts. They were made to bring peace, joy, warmth and affection. For this reason, no love should hurt, nor should it impose anguish and suffering. It is not healthy to live in doubt about whether the other person feels love and joy in your company.
We do choose who to love, and to do so we must learn to be kind and generous to those to whom we must give priority: ourselves. First you need to recognize your qualities, weaknesses and really know what you are looking for in the company of another person. Only then can you fall in love with someone who loves your company and chooses to be with you in the strong sun or in the cold rain. Someone who misses you and shows you that he or she needs your hug at any time of the day.
Then fall in love with someone who likes your smell, who appreciates your ideas and admires your attitudes. Someone who doesn’t hesitate to walk beside you because he assumes he loves you, someone who is proud to have been captivated by you. Don’t let go of that person who values your tastes and listens carefully to your opinions.
Fall in love with someone who always wants you around and who misses you if you’re late, who gives you that security you need, someone whose attitudes say “I love you” a thousand times by word of mouth; someone who makes it worthwhile, because he knows that it’s not every day that you get to meet someone like you.
Whoever loves your laughter and wants to share all their fantasies with you deserves all your love; someone who sees you as a special person and who doesn’t hesitate to have you as a companion. Give yourself to the one who understands your mood swings and enjoys your euphoria.
Fall in love with someone who takes you by the hand in difficulties and celebrates all the victories with joy. If you love yourself, a companion will appear who is not afraid to commit; someone who is willing to join you in writing a special story.
Remember your own value, it is important that you understand how unnecessary it is to be begging for the company of someone who does not want to be with you. You are light, you are love, you are perfect and do not need anyone to complement you.
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