Rules for Caring for Our Relationships
We want to emphasize that this post is not intended to give you guidelines just to learn how to manage your relationship. The idea is that you learn to take care of your relationships in general. Relationships that can be between friends, family and ultimately with everyone around you.
Follow these simple rules and you will be able to enjoy your relationships better
Sometimes we look at people and wonder why they behave the way they do. Other times we think about what they would be like if they acted more like we do. However, we are not perfect, we are obviously protagonists of our own history and masters of our own world, but we certainly have as many or more mistakes and defects as many others.
We can see life with more humble eyes, be better people to better share our lives with our family, partner and friends. But to better enjoy these relationships it is important to remember some very important rules.
Taking care of our language
Words are like double-edged swords, the same damage we do with them hurts us. That’s why it’s vital to take care of what comes out of our mouths. Not always talking more is synonymous with wisdom, it is really quite the opposite, it is wiser who knows how to be silent. For this, the best thing is to always think about everything we want to say two or three times, lest you hurt the other person to death.
Forget about the lies
They say that lies are often necessary to avoid making the other person suffer. That is completely false, the truth will never hurt as much as the lie, the only thing that hurts from the truth is a tactless truth. That is, things must always know how to say, it is important to choose the right time for the truth, and choose the wisest words to say them. Otherwise you could hurt, however, the truth will hurt for a moment, but the lie will always hurt.
The real distance
Some people say that love at a distance doesn’t work. However, the only distance that really matters is the emotional one. Many people who live and sleep together are more distant than those who live their relationship miles away. Communication is the best weapon to fight this distance, if you use it all the time there will never be a distance that opens a chasm between the two.
Focus on giving more hugs
How hard can it be for you to give a hug? Give as many hugs as you can to the people you love. Especially if you see that person distant, quiet, sad-eyed or grumpy, you can’t imagine the good you do with that gesture alone.
Spend time
Finally, try to spend enough time with those people around you. While it is true that our time today is very much measured by the work and tasks of our routine, the point is that our life becomes more enjoyable when we share it with others. Make time for everyone, we assure you that this will brighten up your life and that of your loved ones.