That the next person in your life is in tune with you
If you continue to fail in your relationships, you may be trying to do so only with people who are totally opposed to you. While it’s true that opposites attract, it doesn’t mean you’re going to find a person who has nothing in common with you or who only combines a couple of things.
Get a person who’s in tune with you
Remember something, a person different from you is only going to give you problems, although they won’t be problems because they don’t love you but for compatibility. When we go out with someone who is the opposite of us we argue more, and many times we try to fit in with their tastes and habits.
And although in principle this can be good because we will allow ourselves to know new things, live new experiences and open up to expand our minds, it can also happen that we live more frustrating moments, that we force ourselves to do things that we do not like, or to argue when we simply refuse to do something that we do not like.
In addition, there is the problem that sometimes, it is only one person who wants to change for the other person, while the other person remains in his comfort zone watching as his partner is the only one looking to fit in.
Knowing this, it is important to seek a point of balance. You can’t look for a person who is exactly like you, but you can’t choose who is different from you in everything either.
Try this time to be guided by simpler points, choose the person who looks at you as you look at them. Let them feel the same butterflies you feel when you see them, let them finish the sentence you are saying, let them laugh at your jokes, let them consider funny the same thing you consider funny. Make an effort to find a person who will listen to you, but remember that you must also listen to them.
Try to find someone with whom you can vent all your sorrows without having to keep anything to yourself. Whoever can help you resolve your soul’s sorrows and you his. Get your best support, a person in whom you can find comfort, support and loyalty.
Your partner should be more than anything a great friend, the best you can have, should be a confidant, someone to whom you can tell everything that goes on in your head without fear of being judged. Try to pursue that person who dreams like you and who understands the things you understand.
It may happen that along the way you come across moments where tastes may not be the same but, if you focus only on what matters, the differences will not matter because none of them will ever be strong enough that there could be a possibility of a break-up.
Both will have flaws, perhaps even similar, they may prefer different series and movies or a very different meal, but if in the essentials explained above both are kept in sync, they will certainly all come out well.