Better to be alone than in the company of someone who’s not worth a penny!
Women abound in this world and it is not known exactly how many there are for each man. The exact number may vary according to vision and culture, for example, Arabs may have more than four wives but in Latin America this is unacceptable. But overcoming cultural barriers there is a common point, for a woman and a man in search of love it is not easy to relate.
We are surrounded by beautiful, independent and lonely people who miss company, others want formal relationships, there are those who want only sex and some dream of dresses and bouquets. Looking for romance is what we should put into practice, because getting attached to someone for fear of loneliness can be dangerous.
Being alone is not easy and we rarely see the bright side. It is difficult to accept weekends with no one at home, receive holidays and Christmas with only us as company. We would be lying to you if we told you that overnight you are going to realize that it is better to be alone than with someone who steals our peace. In order to find serenity within loneliness it is necessary to learn to live with yourself until someone comes along who vibrates on your same frequency.
Enjoying yourself is a process that takes time, because it is not easy to explore your inner self and really discover the personality that defines you, your habits, your habits and even your feared defects. Another person will not be able to provide you with peace and happiness; remember that you are responsible for your own well-being.
Being alone is better than being with someone who doesn’t respect you, who doesn’t give you arms, who doesn’t listen to you, who treats you with distance and who puts you in second place. If it’s about staying with someone, at least be affectionate, because what we expect most from a relationship is a love that values our feelings.
Staying single may be an option and it may not be. It may be a self-imposed condition or by chance, circumstance or moment. Whatever it is, you cannot think that it is stigma, bad luck, karma, lack of men or women in the world, everything must happen in due time even a relationship.
Who said that to be complete you have to have a husband, a wife or children and a complete set of dishes? There are many women who follow the traditions and are very unhappy and many others who are really happy. So better to be single and happy than with someone who does not know the meaning of a hug, a look, a kiss or a reassuring caress.
There are fewer men in the world, it’s true. But giving your energy to someone just to have a safe haven, out of need or fear of growing old alone is too risky and too sad.
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