Understand that you don’t have to explain your reasons to anyone
People are more complicated than we sometimes think and this is something that can often work against us, especially if we decide to tell or ask someone else’s opinion about what we are about to do. There will always be someone who will want to judge us and that is when we should say “enough”.
Don’t explain so much to the others
We are usually used to commenting on everything we do or want to do, and we do this by seeking some kind of approval. Maybe we do it consciously or unconsciously, but either way is wrong.
We have to understand that most people do not really know who we are, they do not know our past, they do not know what moves us in life, so it is very difficult for them to give an accurate opinion on any situation we are going through.
Of course, there are people who are very close to us and we tend to give a lot of relevance to their opinions. This is partly not wrong, but it can often work against us, because only we have to be clear about what we want and where we are going.
You can hear them all, take the good from every piece of advice they want to give you, but in no way should you feel forced to act or do what others suggest or tell you to do. Your life should be handled in your own way, this will help you build character and most importantly, prevent you from ending up blaming someone else for anything that could go wrong.
Before any decision, the choice is completely yours, even if you let yourself be carried away by what someone else told you, it is you and only you who gives the last word. If you take away this right, you will never be complete. Do not let others decide for you, no matter if you fall, be you who directs the helm of your life.
Respect yourself and value your own opinion
Respect yourself, and always keep in mind that you don’t have to explain much to anyone about the things you do. As we tried to make you see at first, many don’t know what moves you to do the things you do or to act the way you do. So don’t stop just because someone else has a problem with what you’re doing. If you do, you may even be sacrificing your happiness for the benefit of someone else.
Your life is yours, and your only obligation is to be happy, to feel at peace with yourself, to be well, comfortable and calm. So all you have to do is look for these things in the best way and without trampling on anyone else. By doing this alone, you will be a much more determined, much more complete person. An unstoppable person who focuses on himself and not on what others want from you.
Keep going, don’t stop, and you’ll see how life will smile at you wherever you go whether you do it alone or in company.