Lessons of love

Relationships are not easy to maintain, to establish strong ties we must always learn to evolve based on all our experiences. In this article we mention 15 lessons about love that will help you to keep ties that are very precious to you.

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Knowing how to say goodbye: sometimes we force the bar trying to maintain a relationship at all costs, but inside we know that we are hurting ourselves and the result will always be the same. Saying goodbye to a worn-out relationship is not easy, but it is necessary. The important thing is to do it in the best way possible.
Take your own path: our frequency coincides with the vibration of those who have the same energy, by sharing with these people we can feel that the affinity is unbreakable, however as time goes by we realize that we can no longer even talk to them, so it is time to leave and take the path that corresponds to us leaving behind what takes up our time.
Your perception is different from that of others: it is important to learn to respect the opinion of others about a given situation. We may not share it, but that does not mean we should criticize or offend those who think differently.
People can change: life is constant transformation and those of us within its dynamics also change according to how circumstances present themselves. It is necessary to recognize that we are not the same forever.
More actions less words: to show love it is better to have less words and more action. Give your kindness, your help, listen and, of course, keep your promises.
We see it through the lens of our teaching: our parents, culture and society teach us to understand situations from a certain point of view. Over time we must implement flexibility and learn to feel our emotions according to the circumstances, so we can better understand what is going on around us.
Keep your privacy safe: Technological growth has created the world of social networking, those cyber-windows that allow people to expose their lives and feelings behind a screen. It’s time to communicate that not everything that happens to you is good to disclose. Keep your plans, your dreams, and your qualities secret to ward off envy and bad intentions.
Every person has something to teach you: someone can come into your life for a short or a long time and whatever the condition, they will always have something to teach you. People are mirrors that the universe puts on us to learn how to improve and evolve as human beings.
Your opinions will not be liked by everyone: not everyone we know will approve of our decisions, there are people who will confront us for having different opinions. At that point, mature communication is important, where we reach an agreement that balances the relationship.
Be aware of your emotions: controlling what we feel is not so easy. To become aware of the way you use your emotional energy you need to observe your behaviour and your feelings about what is happening around you. You can progressively change the patterns of behavior that detract from the positive energy in your relationships.
Take care of yourself: get rid of everything that hurts you, even get the toxic people you are in abusive relationships out of your life, move to a better place where you can develop life skills.
Don’t judge others: being more empathetic will help you in your relationships. There are different personalities that we should respect and understand. This is not synonymous with letting others abuse you, but rather with understanding how they act without judging and insulting you.
Relationships are unequal: within relationships there will always be an exchange. But no matter how hard we try this take and give will not be equal and that is something we must accept, for we all express love differently.
Love yourself and then love others: knowing yourself better than anyone else should be your goal, reflect on relationships and ask yourself what you really want in a relationship, give yourself time to know what you are looking for, what you like and above all enjoy your own company.
Don’t be frustrated by your mistakes: it’s human nature to err and relationships don’t come with an instruction manual to avoid making mistakes. Unfortunately, making mistakes is part of the teaching of life and you will fall again and again until you learn to get up.