The main characteristics of those who enjoy solitude

There is a minority in society that prefers to do without the company of other people. These lovers of solitude are generally seen as hermits, strange, asocial, and may even be thought to possess some kind of psychological problem that prevents them from interacting with others.

But we are sure that these lonely people are far from suffering from any mental disorder, in fact they are totally normal and unlike others, they are in frequent contact with their own being. This allows them to be much more aware of their tastes, emotions and even the intentions of those around them. They are very honest, do not pretend or lie about their feelings and above all, do not tolerate the bad energy of people with bad hearts.

People who enjoy solitude have a very definite personality that makes them very brave and experienced. Here we bring you the 8 main features that characterize the lonely ones:

Independent: they do not need other people to meet their needs. They know perfectly their capacities and also their weaknesses, from this introspection they know what they can achieve. Their few emotional relationships do not generate any kind of attachment, so they do not need the approval of others to carry out any plan.
Mind in balance: they maintain a stable relationship between their emotions, thoughts and actions. They do not lose control in the face of difficulties, finding the most appropriate solution to resolve any conflict.
Full of self-esteem: they take the time to develop their skills and their spirituality, thus finding the path to success.
Detached: those who like solitude are not incapable of loving, on the contrary, they know who to open their hearts to. However, he does not feel attachment for those he loves, because freedom is primordial, so if someone is not well by his side he can leave without suffering, or guilt.
Very selective: they have a very small number of friends, but each one was selected for their qualities and also for sharing the same philosophy of life.
Empathic: they know their emotions perfectly and are therefore able to put themselves in someone else’s shoes without any problem. They easily understand suffering and joy without judging or pointing fingers.
They do not feel alone: they are their own best company. They do not feel sad or rejected for being alone, in fact they are very good at talking and they are also good at listening to words and silence. They appreciate sharing with others, but they know that the most important relationship is with their soul.
Intellectual growth: people who love solitude are much smarter, for them it is more important to learn, read, art and music, than to attend social events or meet new people.

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