Physical attractions are common, soul connections are rare
To be able to connect in life with another soul is a fortune. Physical attraction is not everything, although the images we see every day sell us the ideal prototype of the perfect man or woman. Because in a relationship, when times of crisis come (and they will come), curves or muscles won’t lift your spirits, nor will they help you weather the storm. Relationships based on empathy and understanding make each party happier.
There’s nothing better than having someone look at you and know what you’re feeling. Feeling love in the form of comfort, understanding and support is a gift that not everyone gets in their lives.
There are people who connect and marry someone else’s body. They seek the beauty of youth without considering that time withers everything, but enriches the soul. These people who marry or seek partners out of interest will never know what it means to have a real connection with another person, they will never understand what it is to love a soul.
As people, we have the ability to speak with our eyes, but only those who really know us can interpret each look perfectly. Many couples pretend to be interested in each other when the truth is that they are not connected, do not feel empathy, and even less understand each other.
And by this we do not mean that to find a true soul connection you must look for a physical one that is unattractive to you, rather, the physical one takes a back seat. Your partner can be spectacularly beautiful, however, is only one of its attributes, does not represent who he is, because what you really love her is her soul.
Keep in mind that sexual attraction is fleeting. In fact, couples who keep their flame burning do not do so because of the physical attributes they see in the other, but because of the love they profess. They work to keep that flame burning. But if you are only with someone because you feel a strong sexual connection, this is the kind of illusory connection that will not last. It’s just a trap.
Our bodies are not eternal, our souls are
And in the same way, the connections that are made with the bodies are completely ephemeral, while the connections of the soul cannot be broken.
Do you feel unlucky or unlucky in love? Maybe you’ve been looking with the wrong perspective, learn to look at souls. The great Victor Hugo in his famous play “Les Misérables” said:
“Before, men took the soul and then the body, now they take first the body and then the soul, and sometimes just the body.”
Therefore, you may have differences in height, skin color, weight, and much more with your ideal partner. We were taught wrong, we were told that our ideal partner was the one who looked great with us in a photo, but the truth is that it is the one who combines perfectly with us in the close encounters of the soul.