Don’t accept bad coffee, false friends and cold love
Let life take its natural course and learn to let go of people who do not contribute or are not essential to your life.
Along the way we meet both nice and unpleasant people. Often the latter, who are the least desirable companions, have a purpose in our lives, to help us grow and become more tolerant. However, having learned the lesson, the natural course of life takes them away from us without us doing anything, unless we make an effort to retain them (which is rare).
But on the other hand, there are people with whom we create strong emotional ties and with whom we feel “happy” that we have to let go, because either they have already fulfilled their purpose, or the feelings are not reciprocated and are only leaving us empty. In those cases, allowing life to take them away is a huge challenge, we don’t realize that we are hurting ourselves when we stay with people who only offer cold loves and false conversations.
Don’t become the spectator of your own story
In life you must make choices, strive to maintain your bond with some people and let go of others. We are the ones who decide our destinies. So instead of giving in to outside forces, accept responsibility for your own life and work responsibly in your relationships.
It shows you’re willing to build your own story. So, don’t settle for bad coffees, false friendships and cold loves. You deserve the best, but you must earn it by making the right choices, by pushing people away and opening doors for others.
In life, you will have the quality of friends you choose to have. If you complain that you are constantly surrounded by vipers who only want to see you fall, examine yourself internally, for you are the one who decides what kind of people you surround yourself with. You are the one who chooses your friends.
Perhaps, if you consider your friends to be selfish and envious, you have chosen them with frivolity, and therefore, you cannot ask pears from the elm. If you want sincere, lasting and unconditional friendships, you must be willing to give the same and not choose your friends because of what they have or what they look like.
A friendship is a treasure when it is true
But it becomes a terrible burden when it’s fake. It’s like trying to dance with a mannequin. No matter how well-dressed you are or how attractive you look, the dance ends up being forced and uncomfortable. You can give it your all on the dance floor but you get nothing in return. The same goes for forced and fake relationships, no matter how good your friendship potential is or how much you give, it will be time, effort and lost feelings.
Choose to share your time with people who nurture you, in relationships where love is reciprocal and where you don’t have to pretend to feel full and happy. If you have good friends you will be rich, and you will take the burden of falsehood off your shoulders.