Common characteristics of toxic people
There’s nothing worse than a toxic person hanging around your life. They will not leave anything good in you, on the contrary, they will absorb all your energy until you are dry. Toxic people abound and there may be more than one near you. So it is important that you recognize them before it is too late.
With this in mind, we bring you this day a list of the most relevant traits you will notice in a toxic person, so you can run away quickly and safely.
Through these traits you will know who is toxic to you
Here are some of the traits you will undoubtedly find in toxic people.
They’re manipulative
The way a toxic person operates is through manipulation. Somehow he’ll manage to get you to do everything for him. He will use feelings, he will hurt you, he will even take away some things he has done for you in the past or he will give you such a well-crafted monologue that without you realizing it, you will end up at his mercy dancing to the music he plays for you. If you have a friend like that, you should leave. There is no such thing as equality here, and the last thing you want is to be near a person who is served only by you.
They criticize too much
Toxic people are excellent critics, in fact they don’t know when to stop, they criticize everything and everyone, but they have a lot of defects that they don’t even seem to notice. They will constantly want to correct you, they may even judge you, nothing pleases them, but they do not set an example either. These are people who like to live in negativity without striving for anything but wanting to have everything.
They are not responsible
A toxic friend or family member usually has no say, so every time you meet him or her for a date or a meeting, he or she is likely to be one of the longest comers. They don’t want to compromise, they look for the easy way out and they give up the hard work so they don’t have to make an effort.
They’ll never say “sorry”
One of the things that can give us more and give us a better quality of life is the secret of the three “P’s”, we mean Forgive, Forgive, and Ask Forgiveness. These are basic rules for being happy. Well, a toxic person doesn’t know what this is. And if he does, he uses it for his own convenience. When a toxic person fails, he tries to make the other person guilty, but if everything goes against him, he will only justify that failure.
They are not consistent
One day this person thinks one way and the next day they think another. This does not speak very well of them, on the contrary, it makes them think that they can be very deceitful and that they will only show the face that suits them best for a certain situation.
They want to decide for you
Not only do these people seek to take away your energy but also your ability to make decisions. They will always want to be one step ahead of you so that they can choose what is supposed to be best for you.
They will never support you
Since a toxic person is always thinking about her, she will never have time for you, she will only seek you out when she needs you or wants something from you but then she will return to her own. These are opportunistic people who don’t care about you.
They focus only on the problems
Finally, a toxic person will only think about the problems rather than the solutions, for them everything is a complication. They have a defeatist spirit and are not willing to change it.