If you meet wonderful people it’s because life gives you what you deserve
When you meet wonderful people it is because you deserve it, good things only come to those who are worthy, for nothing falls from heaven. Consider yourself an architect of reciprocity, of the bond that is created from the heart, and especially you are responsible for taking care of everything that is really worthwhile in your life. With friendship the same thing happens as with love, we can suffer disappointments and hurt the people around us.
Wonderful people are those who come into your life without warning and then wish they would never leave. Exceptional beings are with you not by mere chance; but because you deserve it, because you know very well how much you are worth. If you have people in your circle who enrich your life, it is because you have learned the importance of respect, commitment and solidarity.
There are many exceptional people, but yours are the best and you deserve them
Each person has a personal homeland, a very intimate map where small stories are lived and the same language is spoken: the language of sincere affection and emotions that help us grow and heal. This is a homeland that requires a lot of work to build, never forget it. It is where your loved ones are. Therefore, we must understand that friends are much more than just a number on our social networks.
Friendship, like romantic love, must be nurtured every day and we must be concerned with nurturing its roots so that the bond is strong, dignified and capable of weathering any storm. Think about the metaphor of The Little Prince, the child who takes care of the rose with great dedication because he knows it is different from any other, simply because it is his.
For good people to stay with us we must create strong bonds and spend enough time strengthening the relationship. Be careful with our weaknesses and shortcomings, knowing that our actions give light or shadow over others. Also, that the love and friendship that these exceptional beings offer us defines us because we share the same stories, because we walk the same paths.
The first study on the impact of friendship on our health was conducted in 1979 and lasted almost nine years. It was conducted in California and demonstrated the following: having a good support network with which to share experiences, fears, moments of relaxation and complicity significantly reduces the risk of infections, heart attacks or strokes. Amazing!
What is missing to have more positive and truly meaningful relationships?
Sociologists have warned about social network friendships based on common interests. We share experiences, dreams and desires, but many of these friendships are ephemeral or linked to a very specific type of activity or need.
Friends come and go, sometimes we are indifferent to this fact. But that mistake can cost us the opportunity to reap unparalleled relationships. If you know yourself better, extraordinary people will come to form a homeland with you. If you value yourself, you will also do the same with the people around you. We deserve to be happy and to learn every day from our wonderful people.
We invite you to reflect on your relationships and to share this article so that others can do the same.