Closing cycles is important for our evolution: Be grateful for what has happened to you and be open to new things
Generally, whenever we start some new stage of our lives such as a new relationship, or a new friendship, perhaps a new job or anything else, we never think about the end. That is, at that moment when this relationship or this project ends, and as a consequence we are not prepared for that feeling of abandonment or of emptiness and disorientation.
Every beginning has an end. Not understanding it often leads to long depressive moments because we do not learn to give up or let go of people or things. However, closing cycles in our lives does not allow us to evolve and walk to new and better things.
Usually our minds are in charge of protecting us against pain and all kinds of suffering. But among those methods of protection that our minds use is the refusal to let go of things and people that we love, however it is important that we remember that nothing is eternal in life and that usually the people and projects that we enjoy on our journey exist only to teach us something. Once we have acquired all the learning that we could receive from these people or these things, it is time to just let them go, close those cycles and move forward to learn and live new things.
We are only here to live an evolutionary process, and the cycles exist so that we can grow with them and then jump from one to another. A lot of times something is taken away from us so we can make room for bigger things. Therefore it is important to live each cycle to the fullest, to take care of our emotions, feelings, and thoughts in order to take advantage of every learning but also to enjoy every moment that these cycles give us regardless of whether these moments are bad or good.
Of course there will be negative, traumatic, sad moments that we would surely change if we could travel in time. However, these moments happened because you had to learn something from them. Not everything in life is a positive moment, so as much as you would like to control every instant of your life, at some point, you will have to suffer because life is also suffering, because from suffering you also learn.
Allow yourself to be grateful for everything, take the measures you consider necessary and take that step forward to put an end to that cycle that has you imprisoned. It is not easy, but it can be less traumatic if we stop focusing on this possible “pain of the end” and put all our attention and faith in what is to come. Let us understand that we cannot remain in a situation that brings us nothing or causes us discomfort and sadness. Look ahead, allow yourself to begin again, have faith in yourself, have faith in life and above all, open yourself to the new.