Love is not begged for, friendship is not charged for, affection is not asked for.
No person deserves to beg for the affection of another whom they love, much less to remind them often that they are there, whether through continuous calls or messages, that is humiliating.
There are things like love, affection and respect that are not said with words but are demonstrated with gestures. However, we spend our lives reminding some people what should already be habitual for them, and this affects self-esteem, when we must remind that person of our existence.
A friendship should not be solicited, chasing someone at every moment, without even being remembered, is emotionally draining. Above all, if you send messages, make calls continuously and are ignored by the recipient, there is time to check if the friendship is reciprocal or is only on one side.
Friendship occurs in a fluid way, without forcing meetings or conversations, it is simply enjoying the presence of the other, sharing moments, living them fully and treasuring memories that we will carry in our memories for years to come.
A friend is there when we need him, if he’s not even there, then he’s not a friend.
It is not right to demand affection, it must be presented in a spontaneous and true way, it is necessary to feel it as much for the one who offers it, as for the one who receives it. And we are not just talking about a caress, but about feeling loved in all the little details that can be given.
Nor is it necessary for the affection to be shown in a physical way, so that we can show it and receive it, without demanding it with words, behaviour or gestures, it is to humiliate oneself before that person who does not show you his feelings.
A gesture of affection is manifested to a being that is important to us, if that gesture is not received, it is time to know if you really are important to that being to whom you ask.
As far as love is concerned, we do not beg the one we love for reciprocity, love is spontaneous, free and it is demonstrated in this way from the depths of our being, just by being in the presence of the loved one we sweat, we get nervous and we manifest so many emotions that are only calmed by a hug or a caress.
Love needs to expand, to express itself, to listen to it, to live it, without detours. If it is not shown equally on both sides, then it is not reciprocal, nor is it mutual love, only on one side.
Our survival will depend mostly on knowing how to differentiate between what is the manifestation of love, affection or friendship, in a dignified way and not in a servile way.
Fighting for what we want in life does not mean that we should beg for attention, affection, love or friendship. Although it hurts a lot to face the reality that we live, it will always be better to be alone, to start over.
The pain of being accompanied, but feeling alone, will not make us worthy of true and reciprocal feelings for the one we so much desire to be by our side.
Love, affection and friendship are given and received without limit when it is reciprocated.